Proxy versus Surrogate
August 18, 2011
A few years ago I was working with a friend, using her Surrogate to work on members of her family and friends. Being low on energy as she was, using her Surrogate for a few people would wind up draining her for the rest of the day. When she told me that, I realized there was a different but similar way to do the work we had been doing. A few days later in an e-mail she sent me something stood out, the word Proxy. I became aware that day that Proxy was what I was looking for.
A comment from a friend: In looking closely at the word definitions, first use, and etymologies, the difference seems to be that a SURROGATE acts AS another whereas a PROXY acts FOR another. A distinction with a potential difference. Worth contemplating. Nice delineation @Kat Miller
Surrogate Work
Surrogate is body's default. Whenever you work on yourself (or someone else) with the intent of sending the energy to another person, if you do not set intent, Surrogate work is what you are doing. The best way I can describe Surrogate is that in doing the work on the intended yours and the intended's energies contact each other, and are somewhat mixed. You utilize some of your own energy in the work done on the remote person.
Proxy Work
Proxy is done by intent. You must set your intention to Proxy in order to work on someone (or something) Proxy. Proxy is different from Surrogate in that your energy and the intended's energy do not mix. It does not draw on your own energy at all. So, you can do Proxy work on many more people without affecting your own energy. I find Proxy and Surrogate to be virtually identical in their ability to affect the remote person in almost all cases. The one exception I have seen is when the intended's energy is extremely low and therefore difficult to establish a connection with. This seems to occur mostly when the person is in a deep state of unconsciousness and/or has a waning life force. In this case, Surrogate may need to be used rather than Proxy, most likely because they need to draw some on your energy in order to be able to process the work which you are doing on them. If you wish to set your default for remote work to Proxy rather than Surrogate, you can do that simply by telling your Inner Being (thinking to yourself), "I wish for my default when I work on myself with the intent to have the work I do received by another as Proxy rather than Surrogate." The wording does not need to be exact. You just need to set the initial intent that from now on, unless otherwise specified, you wish always to have the work done by Proxy.
How to do Proxy Work
Set your intention:
I am doing the following things Proxy for ____________.
Do the work as though you are the person you are doing Proxy work for:
Call Switchwords, use Energy vials, etc., as appropriate for the person.
When you are finished, simply set your intention:
I am done doing Proxy work for _________ and now I am returning to my own energy.
It is fine to do Proxy work for multiple people in one day. I do not know of a limit to number of Proxy session you can do in a day. Simply clear with the statement above before setting Proxy for another person.
We don't encourage proxy chanting by strangers who are taking money FOR proxy chanting.
Why?
- Energy Circles are a very effective way of sending the energy to the person named inside them. They also have the ability to send Switchphrases and Healing Numbers directly to the person:
Energy Circles don't require continuous DEEP ATTENTION ON what is inside them, as is required when someone does proxy chanting. - If the person is not a close family member or friend (whom one often can easily Connect WITH), without confirmation of a connection WITH the person FOR whom one is chanting, the chanting may DO nothing. I, personally, have often had to GET more information ON a person than just their name, date and place of birth to work remotely WITH them. I always verify the connection prior to doing my work.
- The person doing the chanting must BE completely trustworthy. If doing it FOR payment, the focus may BE more about generating income than doing the chanting, and there is a high risk of them either not actually doing it and claiming they did or cutting the session short.
- What is chanted proxy may BE very limited. How easily DO you GET lost in trying to repeat the same thing again and again just FOR a few minutes? What if it is several Switchwords and Healing Numbers you are trying to remember and chant?
I know, chanting FOR myself, I often have gotten lost as to where I am and how many times I've repeated, and I've been doing this work FOR more than 12 years!
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Please BE cautious about choosing to hire someone to DO proxy chanting FOR you. Though sometimes a person may see changes and improvements through this method, it is highly likely it is the belief that brings it to them, as the mind is a powerful creator.
DIVINE-EMBRACE.
Kat
